Being a Goddess
There are many ideas of who a Goddess is or who a Goddess should be. I have heard people get upset with other ladies that call themselves a Goddess because they’re only reasoning for being a Goddess is because they call themselves one. I find this quite humorous. When I first started calling myself Goddess Sativa, there was only one other Pro Domina who called herself Goddess Storm in L.A. She was retired when I took the title. I wanted to be unique, I did not want to use the typical “Mistress” title that is not only cliche, my mother told me it was in reference to a woman who was having sexual relations with a married man. The term is great, if you like the traditional term, which many do and it’s great for them. I have been called a Goddess since I was in high school when my friends used to enjoy my singing or poetry readings I would conduct after school in the meadow.
I have lived a long life in a short amount of years and have a depth and understanding of things that are often overlooked. I just do things my own way and like to question things and always have. It allows me an understanding and appreciation for life that gives me such passion for the simplest of things.
I saved this email I wrote and wanted to share it with you. I don’t remember what I was writing in regards to, but it was so interesting to read, I had to share it! Here it is:
My point is that women are constantly abused. A lot more than reported, I believe. More than one out of four. At least from what I have gathered, but then people have a tendency to open up to me more than they do most.
As a Dominatrix, I am not fully accepted as a professional in society. It is men that rape, men that are clients, men that made these laws and keep them in the first place, yet women get the blunt end. We are not accepted as professionals even though we are very skilled and intelligent people. There are several Dominas who were not abused and do this, that is not my point. My point is that we are used by the very law makers that keep it illegal. This causes more dysfunctional behavior. It makes me sick that sex work is illegal, yet everyone knows it goes on and will no matter what laws there are. I feel there would be less rape, molestation, ect if it were accepted as a treatment, a therapy, that’s what it is.
I challenge any Dr. to treat particular patients that come to me for release of emotion. I gurantee I will do a much better job than a typical Dr. would, weather it be a shrink or whatever.
I have been doing this so very long. I have studied this a very long time. I don’t even call it BDSM anymore. That’s not what it is to me. It is beyond words. It is beyond what I can explain here to you. I share a bond with my subjects, a deep bond most never experience with anyone. People open themselves to me more than they do to anyone else.
So I hope you enjoy a deeper insight into me and my world. I love feedback and knowing you have read this.
jennifer said,
October 21, 2010 at 5:49 am
That’s interesting to hear on how You came to be called a Goddess. A Goddess is thought of as divine, held in high regard, and respected. Just as important a Goddess is giving, nurturing and protective. I find You have done Your utmost to embody these qualities of a Goddess. For example no one has shown an interest in teaching me to cook for looking out for my well-being except for You. That meant a lot to me. That is why i have adored You as my Goddess.
By the way i have heard You sing a few times and find it very pleasing. it would be a privilege to hear more of Your singing or poetry readings.
Yes it is hypocritical many who condemn sex work are guilty of participating in such activities themselves. i wholeheartedly agree from personal experience that my sessions with You has helped me relieve pent up emotions which is a healthy thing to do. Otherwise i would be totally stressed. It is a very special bond unlike any other kind of relationship i can think of. There are things i’ve told You i haven’t mentioned to anyone else. i have complete trust in You Goddess.